Left off my mom’s birthday list, I packed my bags and flew to Paris.

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Banned from my mom’s sixtieth birthday bash, I packed a carry‑on, turned off my phone, and bought a last‑minute seat to Paris. Before the confirmation email hit my inbox, I could hear the wheels of my carry‑on clicking over the hallway seams, that hollow airport sound that makes every decision feel final. Logan smelled like bad coffee and jet fuel and spring rain tracked in on sneakers.

On the ride over Memorial Drive I passed the spot where Dad used to point out “that crooked parapet” on the old warehouse and then talk for ten minutes about load paths while I pretended to be bored and memorized every word.

By the time I reached Terminal E, the kind of calm that only comes after a rupture settled over me. I wasn’t running so much as refusing to beg.

I’m Marion Callaway, twenty‑nine, a Boston software engineer who was raised on backyard barbecues, PTA fundraisers, and the kind of New England loyalty that is supposed to keep a family stitched together when winter winds cut across the Mass Pike. My mother, Linda, an elementary school teacher adored by half of Lexington, just let my younger sister exclude me from the celebration of her life.

It wasn’t a misunderstanding.

It was a decision. And when you find out you’ve been edited out of your own family to make room for a country club guest list, you either sit there and swallow it—or you stand up, walk out, and buy a ticket to the city your late father never managed to see. Dad—Thomas to everyone else—was an architectural engineer with splinters in his palms and cathedral light in his eyes.

The man could talk for twenty minutes about a gusset plate and make it sound like poetry.

He kept a tiny metal Eiffel Tower on his desk as a promise to himself: someday. Then his heart gave out at fifty‑five, and someday turned to never.

Mom fell into a long gray quiet. Stephanie—three years younger, always the charismatic one—threw herself into a marketing career.

I built a life in Cambridge with just enough distance to breathe, just enough proximity to get home for Sunday pot roast and Sinatra drifting over from the neighbor’s radio.

When Mom’s sixtieth loomed, Steph called like we were twelve again and plotting a surprise. We built boards and budgets and a playlist we knew by heart. I found a modest community center with a garden and string‑light potential; Steph designed sunny invitations and floated the idea of a ’70s theme because that was the decade our parents met at a disco off Mass Ave.

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