Am I Wrong for Kicking My Future Daughter-in-Law Out of My House after Her Demands?

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OP shared her DIL is mad at her following their disagreement. Moreover, her son sided with his fiancée and said his mother should have given the ring to her, as it would have been a “nice gesture” to welcome her to the family. OP’s son also mentioned that the act would be no different than when his sister occasionally borrows her jewelry pieces.

However, OP’s husband and daughter are on her side, and she is shocked by her son’s behavior, as it is the first time he has shut her down like this. She noted that the DIL already has a beautiful and expensive engagement ring while explaining it is not a situation where she has no engagement ring at all. Redditors agree with OP that the jewelry is hers, and it should remain that way.

One person stated that if the DIL wants an emerald ring so much, she should trade her engagement ring and have one specially designed for her. Do you think OP was right to kick out her DIL following their altercation and for refusing to give her the ring? What would you do if you were in OP’s position?