My first time hosting Thanksgiving was supposed to be a big “we finally made it” moment. We had a new house, homemade food, and both sides of the family under one roof. Instead, it turned into the day every ugly thing in my in-laws’ dynamic came to the surface, starting with a comment about my cooking and spiraling into something none of us saw coming.
I’m 25, and I still can’t wrap my head around what happened that Thanksgiving.
I thought I’d seen a lot already. My mom died when I was 10.
My dad worked two jobs, and we scraped by on whatever we could afford. I learned to cook because we couldn’t afford takeout, not because it was cute or trendy.
Thanksgiving at our house back then was usually a small chicken, a box of Stove Top, and maybe a pie if Dad had overtime.
It wasn’t pretty, but it was ours. Fast forward to now: I married Jason. Jason is the kind of guy who rinses his plate, hugs his mom, and actually listens when people talk.
We met at work.
He fixed my computer three times, and then finally asked me to get coffee. He grew up very differently from me.
His parents have a big, perfect house and a dining room that looks like it’s waiting for a magazine photoshoot. The first time I went there, I felt like a stray dog tracking dirt in.
Jason’s dad, Richard, hugged me right away.
“So this is the famous girlfriend,” he said. “We’re happy to finally meet you.”
His mom, Diane, shook my hand like she was touching something fragile. “Jason mentioned you grew up… with just your father, right?” she asked, tilting her head.
“Yeah,” I said.
“My mom passed when I was a kid.”
Diane smiled tightly. “Oh, an orphan.
How… resilient of you,” she said. “Jason always did have a soft spot for charity cases.”
Richard gave her a look.
Jason cleared his throat.
I laughed it off, because what else do you do when someone stabs you with a smile? From then on, every family event came with some digs about my background. “Did you learn to cook from a box?” she’d ask.
Or, “We hope the poor little orphan girl can manage a casserole.”
Always with that laugh like she was just joking.
Always in front of people. Jason would check on me later, but in the moment, he kept the peace.
I told myself I could handle it. I’d survived worse than a stuck-up mother-in-law.
Then we bought our first house.
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