When I married Jason three years ago, I knew that his mother, Irene, had a strong personality. She wasn’t cruel or openly hostile, at least not at first, but she had this way of making everything about her. Still, she loved her son deeply, and I told myself that meant she’d eventually learn to extend that love to me, too.
When I got pregnant with our first child, everyone was thrilled, especially Irene.
She was ecstatic, talking nonstop about the baby’s future, baby clothes, schools, and traditions.
But as my belly grew, so did her involvement in every detail of our lives.
It started with her daily visits.
Then she began “rearranging” things in our apartment to “make space for the baby.” The problem was, it wasn’t our apartment, it was hers.
After Jason and I got married, we struggled financially.
He had just started his business, and I was working part-time as a preschool teacher. When Irene offered us her upstairs unit rent-free, we gratefully accepted.
It was supposed to be temporary, just until we got back on our feet.
But turned temporary into two years.
And over time, the invisible line between her space and ours blurred. She’d walk in without knocking, leave groceries in our fridge, and comment on everything from my cooking to my laundry detergent.
I tried to be polite, not to stir the waters.
She was helping us, after all.
But things reached a new level when I was seven months pregnant.
One evening, as Jason and I were finishing dinner, Irene came upstairs with a notebook in hand and that familiar “I’ve been thinking” look on her face.
“I’ve decided on a name for the baby,” she announced. Jason looked confused.
“A name?”
“For your son!” she said cheerfully, flipping open her notebook.
“I’ve been thinking about it for weeks. You’re living under my roof, after all, it’s only right I have some say in naming my grandchild.”
I froze, my fork halfway to my mouth.
I tried to laugh it off.
“Oh, Irene, we haven’t even decided on a name ourselves yet.”
“Well, that’s perfect then!” she said brightly.
“You can just use mine.
It’s a family name.
Traditional, meaningful, I’ve even checked the numerology!”
Jason smiled awkwardly, trying to keep the peace. “What name is it?”
“Cornelius,” she said proudly, tapping the notebook as if revealing a masterpiece.
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