I used to think weddings brought out the best in people. It turns out they can also bring out the worst. I never wanted to invite my stepmother, Carol, to my wedding.
I’d spent most of my teenage years wishing she would disappear, but when my dad asked—no, begged—me to include her, I gave in. “She’s trying, sweetheart,” he’d said. “It would mean a lot to me if you could put the past behind you for one day.”
One day.
I told myself I could handle it for just one day. But if I’d known what she was capable of, I never would have let her within a mile of that reception hall. Carol entered my life when I was twelve, a few years after my mom passed away.
My dad was lonely, and I didn’t blame him for wanting companionship, but Carol was not what either of us needed. She was loud, vain, and always ready to find fault in others—especially me. At first, she tried to play “cool stepmom.” She bought me trendy clothes, took me to get manicures, and said we were going to be “best girlfriends.” But that illusion didn’t last long.
Once she moved in, everything changed. She started criticizing my manners, my clothes, and my friends. “Your posture is terrible,” she’d snap while I did homework.
“No wonder the boys don’t notice you.” Or, “You shouldn’t eat that; you’re already a bit soft around the middle.”
I was a sensitive kid, still grieving my mom, still trying to figure out who I was. Her words cut deep. My dad didn’t see it—she made sure of that.
Around him, she was sweet and supportive. “Oh, your daughter is so bright,” she’d coo, then shoot me a look when he turned away. It was like living with a snake that smiled only when someone was watching.
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