That broke me. Before this, we were a family, laughing over pancakes, and now its like I dont exist,
I confronted him over the phone, (Youve left us alone while our sons dying, where are you?) He snapped back,
Facebook posts him at a bar with his buddies, laughing over beers, Hes out living while our sons fighting for life, and he cant even text to ask how were doing? That broke me.
Before this, we were a family, laughing over pancakes, and now its like I dont exist,
I confronted him over the phone, (Youve left us alone while our sons dying, where are you?) He snapped back, (Youre overreacting, I needed a break).
A break? While our kids in ICU?
I lost it. Told him if he cant be here when we need him most, were done.
Filed for divorce that week, moved in with my parents with our son.
Blocked him everywhere. Dont need a man who walks out on his family. Now, some may say I acted too fast, that hes just bad with pressure and deserves another shot.
But is it too much to ask for him to show up?
My sons my everything, and he couldnt even fake concern. AITA for ending it, Our sons still in the hospital, and Im raising him alone now.
The divorce papers are signed, but the pain lingers. He showed up once, crying, saying he didnt mean to bail, but I cant trust him.
Friends said I should forgive, but how do you forgive someone who left when the stakes were life or death?
Im torn, but my boy comes first, Always but it hurts.
