After nine years of heartbreak and hard-won peace, I thought a positive pregnancy test would be the beginning of the life my husband and I had almost given up on. Then I showed it to Bruce, watched the color drain from his face, and realized the hardest part of our story had not happened yet.
For nine years, Bruce and I wanted a child badly enough that it shaped almost every season of our marriage.
At first, it felt simple. We were still optimistic then, still saying things like, “Maybe this month,” as if hope alone counted for something. Then hope turned into appointments, tests, numbers, and careful phone calls made during lunch breaks.
We tried treatments, changed doctors, and followed advice that sounded scientific and advice that sounded half like superstition. Each time something failed, we told ourselves we could survive one more disappointment.
I loved him for that. I loved that he understood hope could feel heavy too.
Once, after another negative test, Bruce found me sitting on the bathroom floor with my back against the tub.
“I can’t keep doing this,” I whispered.
He sat beside me and took my hand.
“Then tonight we don’t hope,” he said. “Tonight we just get through dinner.”
Eventually, we stopped.
Every month asked us to hope, and every month took something from us when hope failed again.
Not because we stopped wanting a child. We stopped because it felt like our whole life had narrowed into waiting for good news that never came.
Every month asked us to hope, and every month took something from us when hope failed again. At some point, without either of us saying it clearly, we stepped back and built a quieter life. We traveled when we could, redid the kitchen, and let friends think we were at peace.
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