This can be cathartic and provide closure, regardless of whether you decide to forgive her. Doing this separately from your relationship with Nancy can help you compartmentalize the two issues and address them independently, reducing the emotional burden on your new marriage.
Here is another wedding-related story that didn’t go too well. Meghan’s fiancé comes from an underprivileged background, while she comes from a wealthy family. To ensure her big day went smoothly, she gave her fiancé’s family four guidelines to follow. However, when things took a dramatic turn, Meghan wrote to us asking for advice.
