I resented my stay-at-home wife for having an easier life while I worked all day, until she told me what staying home had actually cost her.
My wife Hannah has been a stay-at-home mom since our youngest, Owen, was born.
We have three kids, eight, five, and two, and before Owen came along, Hannah worked full-time.
When she stayed home, I understood it as a practical decision. Between daycare and everything that came with three young kids, it made sense to have one parent whose schedule could bend when the family needed it.
I was the one whose career kept moving.
I work in operations for a fairly large company. Most mornings I’m out the door before seven, and I’m rarely home before six.
My days are meetings, deadlines, budgets, employees calling with problems, and a boss who somehow remembers what he needs from me five minutes before I’m supposed to leave.
Somewhere along the way, I started resenting Hannah for being home while four people depended on my paycheck.
I was carrying the heavier half of our life, after all.
I knew Hannah wasn’t doing nothing.
She handled school drop-offs and pickups, stayed home with Owen, did the laundry, groceries, cooking, appointments, and school stuff because I couldn’t just leave work every time one of the kids needed something.
But I still thought being home gave her a level of freedom she didn’t appreciate.
She could make coffee in our kitchen, wear sweatpants, and sit on the couch while Owen played.
If he napped, she had two hours in her own house.
Sometimes I’d call, and she’d be at the mall.
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