I agree that my FIL should be aware, but we’re both exhausted from caring for a newborn, we’ve learned something startling, and we’re not acting logically.
He and I both want to inform his father, but there will be catastrophic consequences. I only intended to provide him comfort, but instead I caused his parents’ marriage to fail and may have destr0yed his family. We conducted two tests: an ancestry test and a paternity test.
I wanted to find out if my daughter’s eye color could have been produced by a relative we were unaware of.
