I always thought my 16-year-old punk son was the one the world needed protecting from—until a freezing night, a park bench across the street, and a knock on our door the next morning completely changed how I saw him. I’m 38, and I really thought I’d seen it all as a mom. Vomit in my hair on picture day.
Calls from the school counselor. A broken arm from “flipping off the shed, but in a cool way.” If there’s a mess, I’ve probably cleaned it. I have two kids.
Lily is 19, in college, the honor-roll, student-council, “can we use your essay as an example?” type. My youngest, Jax, is 16. And Jax is… a punk.
Not “kind of alternative” punk. Full-on. Bright pink spiky hair standing straight up.
Shaved sides. Piercings in his lip and eyebrow. Leather jacket that smells like his gym bag and cheap body spray.
Combat boots. Band shirts with skulls I pretend not to read. He’s sarcastic and loud and way smarter than he lets on.
He pushes limits just to see what happens. People stare at him everywhere. Kids whisper at school events.
Parents look him up and down and give me that strained, “Well… he’s expressing himself” smile. I hear:
“He looks… aggressive.”
Even, “Kids like that always end up in trouble.”
I always say the same thing. All I need to dissuade people from talking about him is:
Because he is.
He holds doors open. Pets every dog. Makes Lily laugh on FaceTime when she’s stressed.
Hugs me in passing and pretends he didn’t. But I still worry. That the way people see him will become how he sees himself.
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