My mom saw my unshaven legs while at a party, and she gasped in horror. We were at a summer barbecue at my cousin’s house in Atlanta, Georgia, and I was wearing a knee-length sundress, feeling comfortable and relaxed. I hadn’t bothered to shave in several days, a fact I barely noticed, having grown tired of the tedious beauty routine.
My mom, Diana, however, noticed immediately, her eyes widening with a dramatic sense of shock.
“You look like a man!” she blurted out, her voice loud enough to attract the attention of a couple of nearby guests. Her expression was one of genuine mortification, as if I had committed some grievous social error that reflected poorly on her.
I knew her comment came from a place of ingrained, old-school values about femininity, but it still felt like a cruel public judgment. I rolled my eyes internally and let it go, managing a tight smile to diffuse the moment.
Arguing with my mom about outdated beauty standards was a battle I had fought countless times since my teenage years, and I was too tired to engage in another round.
I simply excused myself to get a refill on my drink, giving her time to compose herself and find another topic of conversation, preferably one that didn’t involve my body hair. A week later, my birthday arrived, and the annual family dinner was predictably stressful. After the cake, when it came time for presents, Mom handed me a neatly wrapped, heavy box.
I opened it to find a brand-new, expensive electric razor—the kind marketed specifically for men’s faces and rugged hair growth.
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