My girlfriend said, “I’m not cutting off my ex. You need to accept that.” I nodded.
“All right.”
She smiled, relieved. “See, I knew you’d be mature.”
I added, “I’ll just remove myself from this situation.”
She frowned. “Remove yourself? How?”
I replied, “You’ll understand soon. I’m 35, and I’ve been in my fair share of relationships—enough to know what’s normal and what’s a red flag dressed up as friendship.”
We’d been dating for about 14 months when this conversation happened. Things had been good, or so I thought. We had our own places, but spent most nights together. The kind of relationship where you start talking about future plans without it feeling forced. Her ex was always there, though, in the background. Little comments here and there.
“He texted me something funny today. He’s going through a rough time, so I’m just being supportive.”
I tried to be understanding at first. I’m not the jealous type. I believe exes can be friends under the right circumstances, but the circumstances weren’t right. It started bothering me about 3 months ago. The frequency of their contact increased. Late night texts that she’d laugh at while we were watching TV. Lunch meetups that she’d mention casually like they were no big deal. Phone calls that she’d take in another room because he needs advice about something personal.
I noticed she’d check her phone constantly when we were together—at dinner, during movies, even during conversations. Her attention was always divided. I’d be telling her about my day, and she’d glance at her phone mid-sentence. When I’d pause, she’d look up and say, “Sorry, what?” with this distracted smile.
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